With estrangement and alienation, parent going thru having to ‘prove’ themselves to their child over and over to their child.
Understanding that these contingencies are a mere sign of coercion control. When these statements and comments present themselves just remember that …this is the child testing if what’s being there being said about you, is true.
💜What you can do instead, is remain calm. By doing the opposite action this is how you learn to manage parental alienation. 💜What you can instead, is let your child know that you love them regardless of what’s being said about you.
💜What you can do instead is, continue to show up as the other parent who’s only interested and focused upon their wellbeing
💜What you can do instead is, model that won’t place them, in middle of conflict

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